When children cry what we can tell them?

When children cry what we can tell them?

Rachelle March 23, 2018 No Comments

When children cry what we can tell them?

Has ever happen to you that your children start crying and you don’t know what to do or what to say? That happens to me a lot of times. When children cry what we can tell them?at to say? That happens to me a lot of times. When they start crying because their favorite toy disappears or broke. When they are tired and don’t understand they just need to go to sleep. When they don’t know how to do something, when they are scared, when they don’t get that toy that they want from the store, when we said “no more candies” …
I know is not easy and you just want to cry too!!! Instead of tell them “stop crying” you can just look them in their eyes and tenderly you can say these things:

  1. I’m here with you
  2. I’ll stay close so you can find me when you are ready to talk
  3. I’m listening
  4. I know this is hard for you
  5. I hear you
  6. It’s ok to be sad
  7. We will work it out together
  8. I know it’s scary but I’m here with you
  9. Hug them and say “I love you” … “I’m here”

All kids are different and some of them prefer to hear this things with a hug, others without the hug. Some kids need a little bit of space and then they will listen to you. But at the end of the day all of them just need our love and know and feel that we are there for them and that we understand them…


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